Identity:

No one can choose whether they are going to write with their left hand or whether they are going to write with their right hand right? This is the exact same concept with someone’s sexuality. I didn’t choose if I was going to like girls, and the person next to me didn’t chose whether they were going to be straight, bisexual, or gay. You are born with what your sexual orientation is and it’s not your fault. No one should be discriminated for being who they truly are. It’s the exact same concept if someone practices a certain religion, it’s not their choice, and maybe they were born into that religion. You don’t pick who you are going to fall in love with, or who you are going to marry. It is all about being yourself and embracing yourself for who you really are.

Complaining vs. fixing

When you are in a relationship and you have problems you may just decide to complain and argue about everything that is going wrong. When you complain you only create more problems and then you are even more far away from fixing the problem. Fixing the problem is when you take the necessary steps to figure out what is causing the problem and then doing something about it in order to fix it. When you are in a relationship you cannot just always say that something is wrong and do absolutely nothing about it, by doing that you will get nowhere.